Our Love Story | I Will Go There With You

On our wedding day, in my white dress, I picked up a microphone and sang a love song to Brandon. The song was “I Will Go There With You” by Steven Curtis Chapman.

I loved this song then and I love it now. It’s not your normal wedding song, it’s not too lovey-dovey. It’s real. Like our marriage.

I sang to my husband that no matter where he goes, how dark it gets, and even when we don’t understand, I will go there with him. I will carry his joy and carry his pain. I will hold his hand and we will walk through the storms together. I will fail, but I will be here.

I sang a promise to him that has indeed been tested through the years but remained fast. We have been on the mountaintops, we have been in the raging sea, and we have remained as one.

Now guys, I am not anywhere near being a professional singer, or a professional movie maker. I recorded the song through my phone, played it for my computer microphone, and then uploaded it to youtube. Needless to say, the quality is not spectacular, and that’s okay. This is only my feeble and humble attempt at reminding my husband that my promise still rings true. If he can dance for me and make me laugh on a regular basis, I can sing for him.

Happy anniversary, to my lobster…..

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Just in case you missed Brandon dancing click this link. He does this all the time! https://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=10151169009331373

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More of our love story:

Our Love Story Part 1 | The Day We Met

Our Love Story Part 2 | My Wedding Gift 

Our Love Story Part 3 | When Did We Get Married Again?

Our Love Story | The Wedding Part 1

Our Love Story | The Wedding Part 2

Our Love Story | The Wedding Part 3

Our Love Story | The Wedding Part 3

God was in every detail of our wedding. He knew what we needed and He met every single need. It wasn’t that we verbalized our needs, or went searching for solutions, or were worried or concerned. No, by that point we knew God would provide and we thanked HIm ahead of time for that provision. And He did. 

Kay just happened to have a closet full of wedding decorations from her daughter’s wedding, the perfect amount for ours.

Carole went with me to pick out a wedding dress and when I went to pay… she did. It was her wedding gift to me.

A friend of hers then hemmed it for me, for no charge, as a gift.

We had no intention of using a photographer but Kay wouldn’t hear of that. Her wedding gift to us was our wedding album, full of the memories of our wedding that I am so grateful for now.

Peter and his wife Jean, gave us our wedding cake as their gift to us. It was absolutely gorgeous and more than we could have ever done. It was perfect. Continue reading

Our Love Story | The Wedding Part 2

In New Orleans, we had a covering of protection and an amazing support system as we learned the tools for having a successful marriage.

Bob and Kay became surrogate parents to us. We could laugh with them, cry with them, get mad, get wisdom. We learned from them, grew with them, were loved on, cared for, and encouraged.

They went out of their way from day one to help us start our marriage on the very best foot we could. They invested in our lives when they didn’t have any wordly reason to. During that time, they were the most tangible example of the hands and feet of Christ to us. 

We met with Peter every week for the next 5 months going through our expectations of marriage, our life stories, what God says about marriage, how marriage is supposed to work, how it portrays Christ and the church. No rock was left unturned. As Peter puts it, “We need to weed the garden, get every tiny one out from the root, start with fresh dirt, as to not leave any foothold for the enemy.” Continue reading

Our Love Story | The Wedding Part 1

Our story is a story of love. No, not romantic love, not fairy tale love, not make your knees weak kind of love, not even fireworks love. No, our story is a story of commitment love, enduring love, REAL love.

We met, moved states, got married and had our first child all within 13 months. We look back on that year and remember it as being amazing and awful, all at the same time. How is that possible? Because the circumstances were enough to make two pretty normal people want to go off the deep end, come back again and go off again just to make sure we really went off. They were also enough to make a great God become very real, very near and very magnificent indeed. Continue reading

Our Love Story | When Did We Get Married Again?

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Every year, yes every year, we forget our anniversary. 

Oh yeah, you heard (or read) right. We can’t ever seem to remember when our anniversary is! Let me start from the beginning.

On our 6 year anniversary, or so we thought, we figured it would be romantic and cute to sit as a family and watch our wedding video. We all snuggled up and watched as I walked down the aisle and our pastor began to talk to us and everyone in attendance. At some point he said the date, this 24th of May.

What?! We were appalled! We stared at each other in shock and jumped up with hands flailing! “Can you believe he said the wrong date at our wedding?” We couldn’t believe we hadn’t picked up on that before! How embarrassing that he would say the wrong date! Did no one correct him?! This was terrible and hilarious all at the same time!

Before we got too far into our shock and dismay we had a moment of rational thinking. We figured we should verify that he was indeed wrong. We consulted our marriage certificate. Continue reading

Post Baby | Workout 4

This week  we’re taking it up a large notch and really challenging ourselves to get to a whole new level. If this looks too hard, it’s not. You can do it. Take one exercise at a time, take a breather if needed, but finish. I’m doing this, you’re doing this, and we’re getting stronger together.

If you have forgotten what exactly the workouts are refer to week 3 for detailed descriptions.

Day 1

10 Snatches

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10 Reverse Flies

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10 Squat Twists

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Paleo Walnut Dark Chocolate Swirl Brownies

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Whew! What a day. Every 3 months we take the dreaded hike to downtown Houston to visit our pediatric endocrinologist.

Why is it dreaded, you ask? Well, let me tell you. The drive takes an hour without traffic, 2 hours with. We got both today. Finding Children’s Hospital is a fun adventure all on its own and results in far too many illegal u-turns. We sit in a waiting room that leaves my over-reactive imagination believing that my children are going to leave with every germ known to man and my OCD kicks in and I end up using an entire bottle of hand sanitizer on their dried up hands. Come on moms, you know I’m not alone here.

Then the dreaded A1C test. Aaahhh!!! Seriously, that test feels like the “mommy report card” and I feel like I am either going to pass out or be taken away in handcuffs until they tell me what it is and it’s good. It’s torture I tell you, torture! The worst part? The waiting. Then the waiting. And of course, the waiting. Did I mention the waiting?

Yay us, we made it out alive, intact, not in handcuffs, without any major meltdowns and it only took us 7 hours from front door back to front door. I call that a success! The best part? Jeremiah’s a1c was 6.3 which is fantastic. Time to celebrate a great visit with brownies! Continue reading

Our Love Story | My Wedding Gift

“This is the man you’re going to marry.”

Those are the words God spoke clearly to me the first time I met Brandon, my now husband.

I shook Brandon’s hand and heard the Lord say these words as if He was standing right next to me.

Why did He say this?

Because He knew I would need it. Because He knew I would need those words to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that I was making the right decision. Because He knew that when the going got rough I would be able to remember those words and “know that I know that I know” that I married the right man.

Because He knew what a testimony our marriage was going to be. Continue reading

Our Love Story | The Day We Met

Sometimes the most deep, memorable conversations with our kids can happen in the most odd of places at the most unexpected times and leave the biggest impact. This was one of those times.

My two oldest kiddos are on the swim team this year so we have been spending hours every afternoon by the pool.

One afternoon out in the sun Shiloh asked me if it was okay for her to marry Jeremiah, her big brother. I smiled and asked her if she wanted to marry him.

“Yes, Mommy! He plays with me and isn’t mean too much.” Great reason, huh?! I let her down gently and told her no matter how much she loved him, her brother wouldn’t be able to be her husband.

She continued with the precious and quite funny questions for a while. Can I marry a puppy dog? How old do I have to be to get married? Do you know who I’m going to marry? What am I going to wear? Will I be really tall when I get married? Are you going to come to my wedding? How will I know who I’m supposed to marry?

Most of these were cute questions with cute answers. The last one, well, the last one was real and it needed a real answer. Continue reading

Goodbye Sadness! You Are Not Welcome In My Life!

Disclaimer- I am not a doctor nor have I studied medicine. I am just sharing my own personal story with you. Always seek the help of a good medical doctor especially one that looks to nutrition first.  

I am a mom of 7 with 3 still at home. I home-school my kids and I am happily married (for 29 wonderful years now) to the same man who still rocks my world.

As a stay a home mom, I find fulfillment in my duties as a mom and a wife. I am beyond blessed and I love life. But for some reason sadness had crept into my life like a little snake that had slithered into a crack that I didn’t even know was there.  No matter what I did, sadness bit at me every day.I found myself crying for every little reason. 
I started each day fresh, telling myself it was going to be a better day. No matter what I did, nothing helped and that serpent of sadness still slithered in. My menstrual cycle came and went but the sadness lingered on. And my head ached daily from the stress of the sadness.

I couldn’t understand it. I was already on a lot of vitamins from my Functional medicine doctor and I was eating very healthy. (Paleo.) Why was sadness consuming me so much lately?  When I mentioned it to my doctor, he quickly picked up on it and said he was going to increase my magnesium.

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In the Middle of the Grocery Store

We’ve all been there. I’m there pretty often actually.

Picture this.

I’m checking out at the grocery store with my four little ones around me. My 6 year old daughter is in the cart crying because her favorite flip-flops broke and well, because she really doesn’t want to be sitting in the cart. My 9 year old son is at war with my 3 year old son on aisle 9 of the grocery store. Weapons of choice? Bouncy balls. Really large, annoyingly obnoxious, bouncy balls. My 2 month old sweetheart is whimpering, grunting and snorting with no understanding of why on earth I would be asking her to be patient when all she wants is some good milk! Okay, got the picture?

Now picture this. I finally get all the groceries out of the cart from around my heartbroken, shoe-less child and down the line to the clerk, swipe my card and…. nothing.

Card Declined.

Oh. My. Goodness. Gracious.

“Haha…that’s weird…I don’t know what happened…I must have hit the wrong button… let me try that again…”

Swipe.

Card Declined.

Oh. My. Goodness. Gracious.

Times. One. Million.

“I don’t know what’s wrong with it…I know there’s money in my account…I don’t have any cash on me…what should I do?!” Continue reading

Post Baby | Workout 3

We are on week 3 of our workouts and together and are no doubt getting stronger and stronger. Can you feel the progress that is being made? Yes? Good! Progress is definitely being made!

This week we step it up a notch and really dig deep. You will be sore, you might want to stop, but you won’t. Why? Because it will be worth it. Because you are stronger, faster, and more determined than ever to continue on this road to health.

Keep working guys, it’s paying off. This is only the beginning of a lifetime of new habits, new goals, new strength and a new you. And you are worth it. 

This week Jeremiah was sweet enough to show us the forms of the new exercises to help us out. If you have any questions feel free to ask me. Now get working! 

Day 1

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20 Reverse Flies. Lean over at a 90 degree angle, keeping your back straight.Hang your arms in front of you at a slight angle, then lift your arms open to your sides, squeezing your back muscles together tightly at the top. Do not go too fast or bounce but stay in a controlled movement and pace.

Take it down a notch: Complete this exercise while sitting in a chair or on an exercise ball.

Take it up a notch: Add hand weights to complete this exercise.

IMG_635730 Jumping Jacks. If needed, do 10 at a time with a small break in between.

10 Side plank lifts, each side. Be in side plank position, slowly drop your hip to barely touch the floor and slowly lift back up as high as you can. Squeeze and hold for a 2 count at the top. Repeat 10 times. Turn over and repeat on the other side.

1 minute front plank.

20 Walking Lunges.

Take it up a notch: Carry a ball with arms stretched out in front of you. Continue reading

Paleo Chicken Soup

A few months back we moved from New Orleans to Houston. Life has been so different ever since with very little that seems familiar.

During these months I have been homeschooling my 3 kids, growing a 4th, giving birth to that 4th, adjusting to our new home and city, and trying desperately to make friends. Moving is a hard transition and of everything we miss, we miss our friends the most. After friends, we miss good food.

One day when I was largely pregnant and Brandon was out of town, a new and dear friend Tracey invited the kids and I over to play. Tracey has 6 boys that my kids adore and fit right in with. Seriously, they wouldn’t mind at all if I happened to forget them there for a few years. They love playing and I love getting the much needed fellowship time with another mom.

This particular day, seeing as we had nowhere to be, we stayed for dinner and had a warm, comforting, snuggly blanket-in-a-bowl of chicken soup.

Tracey would humbly say it’s no big deal, her mom gave her the recipe, and it’s just something she threw together. I would say it is filling and cozy, rich yet simple, and full of the perfect amount of flavor. The perfect chicken soup.

So perfect, that I helped myself to 3 bowls. I was pregnant! It was not only wonderful to hang out with friends, but to have such delicious food- both things we have been missing dearly.

Tracey has graciously allowed me to share this recipe with all of you and after a couple of tiny tweaks here it is: “Paleo” Chicken Soup.

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Uneven Fields

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The middle one told me about recess one day, how they play soccer between a few trees and on uneven ground. Kids are good like that, making fields in the midst of a mess. A stadium from a few sticks and woodchips.

They run their little hearts out from start to finish, sucking the marrow out of each precious second of a too-short recess in a too-long day.

He also told me about the teams. They’re unfair. You see, kids–even young ones–have leaders and followers. And this particular group of leaders (like playgrounds the world over, I’m sure) divide the teams. Into unfair ones, mostly. The talented kids band together. The lesser ones form a team by default.

We’ve dealt with this issue all year with the older boy and football at recess. They do the same thing even as they get older, wiser. They do not divide into what is reasonable or fair. The strong clasp hands with the strong. The weaker ones feel happy just to be included. Our older boy deals with this from the perspective of the disadvantaged team. They always lose. Always. There’s no chance for a different outcome.

With the middle boy, it’s a different story. He’s on the stacked team. The leaders put him there. When I talked to him about it, how it wasn’t a fairly matched game, he agreed. “But they don’t listen to me, Mom.”

I shook my head and struggled. There are some playground lessons you have to let them figure out on their own. But there are others,othersthat seem to scream with a lesson. Grab this moment, it yells, and teach. Continue reading

Paleo-ish Crawfish Pasta

I posted a picture last week of this amazingly delicious crawfish pasta and got an assortment of responses ranging from “Oh my goodness that looks delicious!” to “There’s no way that’s healthy!”. It was pretty funny to read… as I sat and ate a bowl-ful. Haha… I’m mean…. any-who…

This meal has been a family favorite for many, many years but I put it away as a goodie I would never get to have again due to it being soooo not healthy. A couple months before I had my 4th child I really, really wanted this dish and decided that I was going to find a way to make it align better with our lifestyle.

And guys: I did. It still has all the flavor and warmth from the original recipe without the grain, unnecessary dairy, and the addition of good fat and veggies. Perfection. Pure creole perfection in a bowl.

Have I mentioned lately that I love New Orleans food and miss it terribly? Okay good, just checking. If you’re like me, this dish will absolutely fill that void.

Picture us eating this on a balcony looking over the Mississippi… listening to the jazz band on the corner below… as the Steamboat Natchez goes by in the distance. Breathe in that NOLA air. *cough- cough*

Life is simple and the food is good.

Yep. Crawfish pasta. This is where it’s at. NOLA in a bowl. Sigh…..

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Post Baby | Workout 2

Congratulations mama, you have made it to week 2!

Wether your baby is 6 weeks old or 6 years, this workout is going to help you get back in shape after having your precious little ones. Remember though, what you eat matters a whole lot more than the exercise. Yes, you need both but 90% of the work, is all about the food. Your workouts will be so much more effective if you are eating great alongside of working out. So here goes, workout number 2 and this much closer to the new, stronger you!

Day 1

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20 min walk. Comfortable walk 2 min. Fast walk 1 minute. Repeat 6 times with a 2 minute cool down.

1 minute side plank, both sides

1 minute front plank

*Rest when needed with the planks, but finish the minute!

10 tricep exercises like in the picture

 

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Post Baby | All About Food

So, we’re both feet in, we’re committed to exercising… now we need to talk FOOD.

No matter how much time you spend in the gym, if you’re not eating well- it’s all for nothing. Nothing.

Your diet, the food you eat, impacts your health more than anything else.

Let’s remember how important it is and act accordingly. Your life depends on it!

I HIGHLY recommend the paleo lifestyle. The name itself is a little weird, but look past that to the food. The food that is God-given, from the earth, whole, clean, delicious, beautiful FOOD.

The paleo lifestyle consists of highly-quality protein like meats, seafood, and eggs, lots of veggies, fruit, some berries, fats, nuts and seeds.

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I urge you to go all in. With there being so many recipes and sites and helps out there, eating paleo has become easier and easier.

If you are nothing close to this, or have crazy little pick eaters, try switching out 1 meal a day. Baby steps lead to bigger steps and before you know it, your whole family is eating healthier, whole foods and feeling great.  Continue reading

Post Baby | Workout 1

My first week back to working out post baby! I’m so glad you’re joining me! 

Although I might be able to do more than this workout asks for, I’m going to be wise and start slow.

Please be wise with me!

The worst thing us mommies can do is overdo it and be out for the count. Don’t do it!

With a lack of sleep and time to truly care for ourselves as much as needed, let’s not do too much too soon.

If this is easy, YAY! Enjoy the ease and get ready for next week. It’s gonna get better and better….

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Day 1

20 min walk. Comfortable walk 3 min. Fast walk 1 minute. Repeat 5 times.

1 minute side plank, both sides

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Post Baby | Let’s Do This

I am not “that” girl.

You know.

The girl who can pop out a baby and leave the hospital in her cute jeans.

Nope. Not me.

I left the hospital, after having my fourth baby and fourth c-section, in my stretchy pajamas. And they barely fit… and not in a good way.

When I’m preggers bad food tastes extra good, my innie quickly turns into an outtie, and any excess pounds gained will be worried about post baby.

Well, here we are.

Post baby.

Time to acknowledge the dreaded baby weight and make a plan to get back to my optimal health.

What is my optimal health? Well, it’s certainly different for everyone. Here’s mine.

Before I had my sweet Mercy I was at the top of my game, in great health, I felt great, had a massive amount of energy, slept like a baby (hahaha! whoever came up with that term has major issues), was strong, and loved how I felt. I did Crossfit, TRX, bootcamps, ran often, did yoga and ate paleo 90% of the time.

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That’s where I want to be again. That’s how I want to feel again. The goals I have set for myself are based on where I was, and I am confident that getting back to that state of health is what my body needs.

Is that the same for you? No.

If you’ve never tried to get in shape, if you’ve never been on the paleo diet for an extended amount of time, you probably aren’t sure what your end result will be. That’s an exciting place to be! For me, I do know what my end result can be and I want to get there.

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Traveling with Food Restrictions

Food restrictions in the home add stress, while stepping outside of the home with your restrictions adds a whole new level of stress. Going out to eat for one meal is doable, but planning for a week of eating outside of the house is tough.

What about vacations? I’ve learned that with a little bit of planning, this is an easy obstacle to overcome.

It’s early one morning on our vacation. I’m enjoying a cup of coffee before we begin our day of sight-seeing. This has been an incredible trip, one I’m very thankful for! Vacations in the past were filled with fun memories, but always held days that someone was sick. It’s just what happened. We would bring medications and allow for “rest” days where nothing was planned.

Now that we know about our food allergies, there aren’t as many sick days. Traveling with food restrictions and allergies is tough, but with a little planning, it doesn’t have to be!

Plan, Plan, Plan!

The key is to plan.

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Travel days – With family living 8 to 12+ hours away, we drive long distances every year. We have a cooler that fits between the front seats and we don’t leave home without it! I fill it with what we need for our week away as well as what we need for the drive. We also keep a case of water bottles with us. Have you noticed how much water bottles cost on the road and at tourist attractions? Yikes!!

  • Eat in the car – Breakfast and lunch are eaten in the car. Sometimes we’ll stop at roadside parks. Most of the time I make sandwiches in the car and pass them out. Remember to bring all utensils you’ll need as well as napkins and trash bags! Tip: Collect mayo/mustard/jelly packets to use in the car.
  • Find a go-to restaurant – If we are still driving in the evening, we have a go-to place we’ll stop. Here is where planning and our iphone comes in… Before we leave home, I know target spots where our go-to restaurant is on our route. About an hour before we want to eat, we search for it. It’s a chain with organic food. There is one meal I know won’t make me sick. We order on-line and when we arrive, we grab our bag and go! As fast as fast food, but healthy! Find a chain and know what specific meals you can eat.
  • Snack grab bags – Because it’s a vacation, I allow junk food. We splurge and buy prepackaged foods – for the ones that can eat it. For the rest of us, dried fruits and homemade lara bars (what I call KimBars or KimBalls – you can search my website for those recipes) are our favorite snacks. If I have time, I make a car snack grab bag for each person. It holds enough snacks for the car. When it’s gone… well, they know to ration so that won’t happen!!

Kitchen – We cook our food instead of eating out. With how much money we save doing that, we are able to stay in condos or hotels with partial kitchens. Even if you just have a microwave, you can eat incredible meals from your room with this one simple tip – Bring pre-cooked, frozen meals. A week before the trip, I spend one day cooking. Before that day cooking, I plan.

  • Make a menu
  • Create two shopping lists
    • Ingredients needed for cooking
    • What to buy after arriving at destination
    • Shop
    • Cook all meals at once
    • Freeze meals (store in gallon freezer bags that lay flat to freeze – space saver!!)
    • After arriving at destination, shop again.

This week, our menu consisted of chili dogs, chili, Zuppa Toscana soup, breakfast foods, white bean chicken chili, and tacos. Those are also the favorite meals of each child in the family! It just so happens they are almost all one-pot meals. All I had to do was heat the meal and set out condiments.

If we were staying in a hotel, a microwave is all I’d need. The biggest problem would be keeping the food cold. A cooler would work, but you would have to keep enough ice to maintain correct temperatures.

Problems with staying in the boundaries of your restrictions happen when hunger strikes. Once again, planning will keep that from happening! Carry snacks and water bottles with you!

A vacation just wouldn’t be a vacation without enjoying food relevant to the area. Restaurants that prepare their food from scratch can easily accommodate food restrictions. These restaurants tend to be a bit pricier, but with all the money you’ve saved by cooking, it’s worth it!

If you can plan to eat out during lunch hours, not only will it be cheaper, less crowded times make changes in meals and special accommodations easier. Tip: Asking locals or calling the restaurant beforehand is an easy way to find out if they can accommodate your needs!

Just a little planning beforehand and keeping the simple tips in mind will take the stress out of travelling with food restrictions!

Bon Voyage!

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Kimberly Vogel is new to blogging, but not to writing. She is working on her first book – children’s Bible study and picture book. This past year, she was diagnosed with food allergies and began the quest for healthy living. She home schools her four daughters and is very active with the children’s ministry at her church. When she’s not teaching, serving, writing, or cooking you might just find a crochet hook or knitting needle in her hand. Check out her latest activities at her blog http://www.kimberlyvogel.wordpress.com.